Posts Tagged ‘Self Confidence’

What choices will you make this year?

Just last night, I received a call from Bryan
who lives in Northern California.
He has been wrestling with a multitude of problems
such as health, self-confidence, sexuality, money
and lack of knowledge on how to get out of the deep
hole he’s dug for himself.

Every time I suggested something he answered
with a phrase that blocked any positive input he said,
“Yes But” as if it were the cream in his coffee.
This went on until I had to stop the conversation
and point out that his “Yes BUT” answer was in the way
of making any movement and keeping him in the rut.

“Yes But” is a Killer Phrases that destroys ones
creative potential. I asked him if he was ready
to transform “Yes, But…” into “Yes, and…” and
ideas into reality!
Bryan’s self talk was blocking him on every level.
He was stuck knee deep in his own muck.
What ever you think about the most
is what you’ll bring into your life.

It makes no difference if it’s good or bad.
What ever you think about, say and talk about the
most often is what you will get… If you say,
“it’s going to be a bad day.” Guess what? It is!
On the other hand if you declare,
“it’s going to be a great day,
” it’ll be Great!

Brian wanted to tell me how his situation
blocked everything in his life. He went on
to tell me again, and again, and again that he had a
dysfunctional family. He doesn’t have any money or a job,
and he made sure that I knew that as he repeated it to me
3 or 4 times in the conversation.

“Many people are in a rut and a rut is nothing but a grave –
with both ends kicked out.”
Vance Havner quotes

I am 99 and 44/100% sure that the universe was listening
to his every word and following his instructions to the Tee.
He said, “I’ve been with depression and anxiety for as long
as I can remember. I’d say since about the age of 11 or 12,
and it’s only getting worse.” What he is really doing is
reinforcing his stuck situation and allowing the same dark
cloud to stay right over his head.

Self-talk can be the # 1 jamming process you do to yourself
or the it can be the key to having everything you want.
Over the past 25 years I have been teaching, coaching and
mentoring both individuals and groups on how to make
positive changes. It’s more than possible to
re-program oneself, and when you work with a coach
you can eliminate falling back into old patterns. You
make advancements quicker and have an objective
person moving you into what you want to be.

A coach can help pull you out of that rut.
No matter if it’s your health issues mentally,
physically, spiritually, or getting back on
purpose of reaching your true wants, needs
and desires. When we work one- on- one
there are major shifts that can happen
in ones life. A stronger bond is created
and a personal connection is established,
even if you are on the other side of the world.

Every month we have a personal Skype call, and go over
practices together. The goals to be accomplished and we
adjust them for maximum success; we look at where we are now,
where we want to go and how to do it… I have been working with
people outside of the box using meditation practices
and internal exercises like Qi Gong, Nei Gong and Shen Gong to
customize personal growth and health.

Your life can be easer and more powerful when you
can work at strategies with a teacher who comes
from a totally different tradition than most coaches.
Your choices may range from profound to trivial,
and each one has an effect that makes your life more fulfilling
or less fulfilling, more balanced or less balanced, that makes your
process of living more effective or less effective.
Coaching helps you learn how to make choices that
create an effective, balanced and fulfilling life.

As we work together we will connect your body,
head and your heart to help transform your hunger
for your dreams into action for your life. Take this
test and get a snap shot and see if the coaching
program is for you!

On a scale from 1 to 10, rate each of the following
statements: (if not applicable, score the item as a 5).
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 1 0
Not at all Maybe Totally agree

• I am ready to create more balance in my life.

• I am ready to improve my sex life
and relationships.

• I am ready to make real and positive
changes in my life.

• I am ready to find and live my life’s purpose.

• I am ready and willing to overcome
self-limiting beliefs and behavior.

• I am ready to create plans and take action to
achieve my goals.

• I am ready to achieve a sense of fulfillment
at work and in my personal life.

• I am ready for more fun and pleasure in my life.

• I’d like to work smarter and make more money.

• I can benefit from someone who will help me
to stay on track.

What’s your total score?
Less than 33
 Coaching is not for you at this time.
33 to 64
 Coaching can assist you at looking at
your life from a different perspective, and help you
develop a plan to change what it is that you would like to transform.
If you decide to work with a coach and commit that you will
take the necessary action for your benefit, then it will be possible
for you to make lasting life-changing improvements.

Over 60
 Congratulations! You are ready for Coach!
You are willing to do whatever it takes to create the
life you deserve and desire. Please take a moment to
contact me right now for a FREE introductory
coaching session to find out what coaching can do for you.
This one click can change your life forever.

I wish you the best in your Health, Wealth and Happiness

Dr. Wu Dhi

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http://rechargingqigong.com/private-coaching.html
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We will set up a free personal coaching session!