Qi gong

Differences Between Men’s & Women’s Sexuality.

  • Women are like Water; slow to bring to the boil and slow to cool down, while men are are like Fire; easy to Arouse and quick to cool down!
     In ancient times, Chinese sexual teachings stressed how women like slowness and long love making sessions. The Daoist  stressed  the importance of  foreplay by the man to arouse his partner. When a man can bring his mate through the five signs of a woman’s arousal he becomes a effective lover!
     How one  know when a woman is aroused  sexual
    1) Flushing of the face, indicating arrival of Heart-Qi;
    2) Hardening of the nipples and sweating around her nose and moist eyes, with an expression of love indicating arrival of Liver-Qi;
    3) Parched throat, dry lips indicating arrival of Lung-Qi;
    4) Pressing her body close to the man’s body and the moistness of the vagina, indicating arrive of Spleen-Qi;
    5) Extreme moistness of the vagina with dripping of thick, viscous fluid, indicating the arrival of Kidney-Qi.
     The Five Desires are:
     1) “Intent”: manifested by short, shallow breathing and a rapid pulse.
    2) “Awareness”: she wishes the man to touch and stimulate her genitals: indicated by flared nostrils and parted lips.
    3) When a woman approaches the peak of passion, her entire body shakes and she clutches the man closely.
    4) Occurs during orgasm and is called “Concentration”: the woman sweats.
    5) Occurs only in a state of extreme passion and pleasure beyond normal orgasm: her body straightens and grows rigid, her eyes close and she clamps her thighs tightly together around the man.
     Any and most instruction have to be directed at the men, teaching them how to conduct foreplay, how to arouse the woman, how to detect the signs of her arousal and her intentions and how to delay ejaculation. This is because of the above-mentioned biological difference between men and women, The  women are “slow to heat up” while men are “quick to flare up and become extinguished”: thus the responsibility is very much on men to control themselves to give time to the woman to reach arousal and orgasm.
     From the point of view of Chinese Medicine, there are important differences between men’s and women’s sexuality. In men, the lower Dan Tian contains the “Room of Sperm” and is, so to speak, “empty”; in women, the lower Dan Tian is, so to speak, “full” as it contains the Uterus and Blood. Excessive sexual activity does not affect women as much as men for various reasons. 
    I have been teaching these techniques as well as iron shirt Kong fu to many of my students for years with great success.
     If you are lacking in your expression of Love Making contact my office and arrange a private consultation today.
     305-407-0120
     
    I wish you the Best in Your Health, Wealth and Happiness!
  • Dr. Wu.
  • Sherwood S. Swartz, DOM, DMQ.
     
     
     
     

     

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