Flirting Can Keep You Young
I have been flirting with a young lady for the
last few weeks, and itâ€™s a lot of fun. Flirting
requires some real skills and, if done right, it
can keep you years younger. But one must have
intellect, the right body language, creativity,
empathy, and a healthy sexual desire to make
it really work well. Flirting can be taken to a
high art, whether you’re looking for a soulmate, a
lover, convening with a salesperson to give you a
deal, or just having some fun. It can be a first
step towards getting a date or meeting a
Here’s how it all started…
There we were, looking at each other for a few
weeks, and there was definitely some energy and
attraction going on. Both of us were casually
flirting with each other, and then she laid it
down on me. â€œI donâ€™t date.â€ I had to LOL. Thatâ€™s
my line! And she stole it before I could open
my mouth. But watching her body language, it
was easy to see she wanted to know more about me,
maybe just to be a friend, or it could be even
more. Observation is the key to flirting. You must
know the signs and, if you are open and aware,
magic can happen. I told her I don’t date either,
but if I did, she would be the type of girl I’d
be flattered to go out with.
Although we have all flirted and been flirted with
on occasion, have you ever thought about why we
actually flirt? We flirt because we want to change
a friendship to a romantic relationship, or a
casual date into a more serious dating
relationship. Flirting is just like going fishing.
It does’t guarantee you’ll catch anything, but
it’s always fun to go fishing. If one is
romantically interested in another person, they
can flirt to gauge his or her reaction. Observe if
he or she flirts back. This will give you a sign
to go forward or forget it.
Sometimes, we may flirt simply because it’s
fun and the interaction is just playful. One might
flirt to achieve a goal. The flirter may be driven
by a motive – maybe they want a favor or wants to
have someone buy you a drink. Flirting can also be
driven by the esteem motive. When an individual
flirts to increase or reinforce their
own self-esteem, they flirt to make
themselves feel good about who they are. Flirting
can, of course, be driven by sexual desires, and
many times it is. Flirtatious messages can
motivate one to move mountains or even build the
Taj Mahal. Flirting is all driven by the desire to
build a relationship, it could be romantic or just
to connect with someone you want to be friends
Here are a few things that you can do to sharpen
your flirting skills:
1. Lock eyes for several seconds, then, look away.
2. Smile and be happy.
3. Mimic the other person’s body language. This is
a powerful NLP technique.
4. Ladies, show off your neck and flip your hair
when you are looking at the one you want to flirt
with. Girls wearing red lipstick will attract
someoneâ€™s attention more than other colors.
These techniques are fun to play with, but be
careful you can get bitten! You donâ€™t want to reel
a shark into your boat unless you have a big club
to knock it out.
I wish you the best in your Health, Wealth, and
Dr. Wu Dhi
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the techniques, you may want to have some of these
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And good luck!