Balancing your Relationships
I had a student call the other day who had
troubled stemming from a 2-year relationship that
just wasn’t working the way he wanted. One week it
was love and the next it was fighting, anger and
mistrust. Sort of a yo-yo pattern and it wasn’t
working for either partner for over a year. He
told me he was just feed up and wanted to move-on.
But on the other hand he loved her. I asked if the
sex was removed would he still stay in the
relationship? He said, HELL NO!
Like so many other couples they were both addicted
and thought it was love.
But each person in the relationship was fighting
for power and trying to get their way no matter if
it hurt the other or not. It was more of a power
struggle than a love affair.
I sent him a list of questions and asked him to
please take the time to work on the list to see
exactly what he wanted before our next meeting.
Here are some of the questions; they will help
guide you to what you really want.
if you are struggling in your relationship or need
help making a decision it would behoove you to try
it out.
Here is the list:
1. How long have you been in this situation?
2. Why change now?
3. Are you ready to do this?
4. Where do you want to be by the Summer
Solstice June 21st. 2018
5. Where do you want to be by The Vernal
Equinox September 22st 2018?
6. Where are you now?
7. What actions can you do at this time to get
closer to your results?
8. Take a look at what you really want
9. How would you be if it was perfect for you;
a. What would it look like
b. What would it sound like
c. What would your physical posture be?
d. What would be an indication of your success?
10. What would stop you from changing?
11. Who you get to manipulate by changing?
12. Are you willing to make the changes no matter
how long it takes or what it takes?
Most people don’t know what they want, but when
asked, they can tell you exactly what they don’t
want in detail. When it comes to what they really
want they don’t have a clue. In the art of Feng
Shui there are specific formulas that can guide
you through making decisions in every aspect of
your life. These formulas are based on
mathematical calculations and when followed, will
bring you the results you want for your success.
Check out the Magic Square program.
it will guide you to what you really want in your
life.
I wish you the best in your Health, Wealth and
Happiness
Dr. Wu Dhi
