I was training with one of my younger students last night and she said to me “Dr. Wu you seem to push yourself harder then most men a third your age but you seem to be the happiest person I know, how’s that work.”
“I don’t PUSH myself, I PULL” I told her.
It might sound like I was making fun but I was truly speaking from the heart.
Once you understand how to properly PULL yourself you will have unlocked the secret of achievement, success, and eternal health.
I went on to explain student that most people believe that they have to push themselves to get any results.
They believe that they have to “get through” stuff in their life so that they can arrive on the other side of the stuff they didn’t like.
This is a silly way to go through life. It’s also dangerous.
I’m not suggesting that you don’t strive to achieve. I believe that you’re only alive when you are growing.
So how do we go about becoming more than we are?
It’s more about discovering how we already do this.
We are pulled to new heights in life by our aspirations and love of what we want or who we want to become.
It’s even in our language we “Pull ourselves up” we never “Push ourselves up.”
When we feel we have to force ourselves to the next level we are admitting that we have lost our enthusiasm.
The key is in rediscovering that enthusiasm and that creative spark every morning.
I’ll give you an example:
I manage to workout every day even when I don’t want to. Do I push myself to workout?
No, I start simply with a gentle twisting motion and tapping motion I call “Tapping the Goods”. (I also give this exercise in the Recharging Qi Gong that you can get at http://energymedicineflorida.com )
I do this first on those days when I don’t feel like working out because so easy to do and instantly makes me feel better. Once I feel better I want to do more.
This is an example of Pulling yourself to success.
The next time you need to get moving consider what small thing you can do to get started that you will enjoy. Once you are back to enjoying yourself you will find the capacity to do more no matter what it is.
Wishing you Health, Wealth, and Happiness,
Dr. Wu Dhi
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