A Frustrated woman came in to the office today.
Her beloved husband isn’t paying any attention to
her. She said, “I got married when I was very
young and I was a virgin. I took it for granted
that my husband would show me everything about
sex, and because I never slept with anyone else, I
just thought that this is the way it was done.
Now, I am in my mid-forties and he hardly gives me
any sexual attention at all and I am frustrated. I
am very much a woman and need to be loved. What
can I do?”
My dear friend, this isn’t the first time I have
heard this tale of sorrow. I hear this story at
least a few times a month. Couples that love each
other and have been married for years or are in
long-term relationships lose touch and get bored.
A relationship must be constantly renewed,
recommitted and nurtured just like a plant or it
will die. And that means sexually as well… I know
many couples that are really bored of their mates
and are afraid to leave each other because of
money, guilt, their children, insecurity and/or
fear.
When we are young, we develop habits that we carry
out automatically just like a programmed robot,
that’s unless those non-productive habits are
worked on consistently until the changes are made.
“Mrs. Frustrated and Horny never took the time to
take charge of her sexual relationship and only
wanted to please her jackrabbit husband. He
thought sex was all about him cumming, and the
quicker he did, the better. Now, he is older,
doesn’t have as much energy as he did in his late
teens and twenties, and he still has the old
sexual habit patterns. His wife calls him “instant
oatmeal” under her breath (done in 3 minutes).
Consciously, he doesn’t get it. He just boards and
turns to phone sex, pornography or a secret lover.
He doesn’t realize that every time he loses a drop
of semen, energy is drawing away from his kidney
reserves, and he is losing vital energy and aging
himself as he loses his essence. He’s frustrated,
unhappy, and so is his wife. This is a common
situation. Many males lose their essence, feel
tired, and although they still want to make love,
in no time, it’s over; he wants to eat and go to
sleep and his partner is totally frustrated and
their sexual life is horrible.
If you can imagine for a moment what would happen
if you had a burning torch and you took it and put
it in cold water? Yes, it would be extinguished.
This is what happens in many sexual relationships.
Man is fire and woman is water. If the man puts
his fire stick in cold water, it will go out
quickly and so does all the energy. But, if the
water is slowly heated up, and as it gets hotter
and hotter eventually, the water will boil and
turn to steam. We can run a huge locomotive with
steam energy. Steam is power. So guys, you have to
slow down and share more. It’s not about you
cumming and going; it’s about you warming the pot
long before you plunge in. You could call it
Sexual Magic or Sexual Kung Fu. As any true magic,
things need to be done to make it happen smoothly.
First, you have to set the stage — flowers,
chocolates and wine may be a good start. Women
want romance and if you don’t give it to them,
they are going to get frustrated with you and may
even wander.
Remember this! If you satisfy her first, she will
give you her heart and soul forever. Kissing, soft
touching, tell her how much you want her and love
her, be romantic, loving and very generous with
your energy.
If you want to learn and grow sexually, pick up a
copy of Dr. Wu Dhi’s Sexual Secrets Program
http://rechargingqigong.com/sexual-qi-gong.html
and you will learn to be a master in the bedroom
and maybe, even on the kitchen table, if you are
lucky.
I wish you the best in your Health, Wealth and
Happiness!
Dr. Wu Dhi
P.S. Mr. and Mrs. Frustrated bought the Dr. Wu
Dhi’s Sexual Secrets Program
http://rechargingqigong.com/sexual-qi-gong.html
and they are both training and strengthening their
relationship and their units.
