The more you make people feel good the better you
will feel and so will they.
1. Ask questions about them and maintain eye
contact. You don’t have to say much, use body
expressions smile, frown, nod, not so much
verbally, but nonverbally. Your body language is
more powerful than words. It will show the other
person they’re important to you and are interested
in their life. Don’t offer advice unless you’re
asked.
2. Listen closely to everyone, regardless of
their position or social status or “level,” find
something you have in common with them and expand
on it.
3. When you are with someone, give him or her your
100% attention. Don’t check your phone, don’t
glance at your monitor and don’t focus on anything
else, even for a moment. You can never connect
with others if you’re busy connecting with your
own stuff. Give the gift of your full attention,
that’s a gift few people give. The gift of your
undivided attention alone will make others want to
be around you and remember you.
4. Never think about what you can get from others.
Focus on what you can give; Giving is the only way
to establish a real connection and relationship.
5. Make the conversation about them. You already
know what you know. You know your opinions, what
you are and what you do. You know your
perspectives and points of view. None of that
stuff is really that interesting to others. If you
want to make others feel important, relaxed and
calm ask them all about themselves. Talk about
what interests they have, what they like and what
they dislike. If the conversation is about them,
they will find it the most interesting
conversation they ever had.
6. No one receives enough praise these days, No
one! Tell people what they did well in. Not only
will people appreciate your praise, they’ll
appreciate the fact you care enough to pay
attention to what they’re doing.
7. Choose your words carefully. The words you use
impact the attitude of others. For example, you
don’t have to go to a meeting; you get to go meet
with other people. You don’t have to create a
presentation for a new client; you get to share
cool stuff with other people. You don’t have to go
to the gym; you get to work out and improve your
health and fitness. We all want to associate with
happy, enthusiastic, fulfilled people. The words
you choose can help other people feel better –and
make you feel better about yourself too.
Incredibly successful people are often expected to
have charisma simply because they’re successful.
Their success seems to create a radiance effect,
almost like a glimmering light around them. You
don’t have to be incredibly successful to make
people feel important. Just be interested in them.
Making others feel good, important and have good
self worth will bring you better health, wealth
and happiness. Practice making others more
successful and fulfilled and you will be as well.
One of the ways to keep yourself in top condition
is to work on your health everyday. The Qi Gong
Inner Circle is a membership that will give you a
new teaching every month. We work on our mental,
physical, emotional health as well as our
spiritual growth. The DVD’s that you will be
receiving will change your life forever.
Become a member today!
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I wish you the best in your Health, Wealth and
Happiness
Dr. Wu Dhi
PS. Every Wednesday night I personally teach the
members of the Qi Gong Inner Circle the internal
secrets of the Taoist and Tibetan practices.
